Sarper's Alleged Tulsa Texts Split 90 Day Fiancé Fans

“I am.” Two words — that is how the alleged messages begin, according to screenshots shared by a woman named Khloey. “The last 6 months. Im single. Divorce papers filed.” Those lines, which Khloey says came from Sarper Güven, are now at the center of the newest 90 Day Fiancé firestorm — because what happened next, in her telling, took place in person, in Tulsa.

“My Barbie”: The Alleged Messages That Started It

Khloey shared what she says are weeks of conversations with Sarper through fan account @90dayfianceupdate, according to Complex’s November 7 report. In those alleged messages, Sarper told her he was single, called her “my Barbie” and “baby,” sent selfies and kiss emojis, and gave her a free ticket to his Tulsa show. The screenshots have not been independently verified, and neither Sarper nor Shekinah has responded to these specific allegations.

One Night in Tulsa: “Act Like I Didn’t Even Exist”

The story, as Khloey tells it, turns on a single evening. She claims Sarper flirted with several other women that night. When Louisa — his opening act — stepped away, she says he came over to her; when Louisa returned, he ignored her. Khloey also says she believes Louisa and Sarper were affectionate — stressing that was her own reading of their body language, not something either confirmed. Then, she claims, Sarper told her to head home and wait for his text — and went back to the other woman, acting “like I didn’t even exist.”

Sarper Guven smiling outdoors

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The Comment Under His Photo: “Now I Know Why You and Your Ex Split”

Khloey did not stop at the fan account. She left a comment under one of Sarper’s own Instagram photos: “Now I know why you and your ex split,” she wrote, adding he “tried to talk to me and 3 other girls” — and telling Shekinah she was “sorry” she had to put up with his “childishness.” That comment turned alleged screenshots into a fandom-wide argument — it put the accusation where Sarper’s own followers could see it.

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The Backstory: A Marriage That Ended Months Before the Paperwork

The timeline matters, and both sides keep citing it. Sarper and Shekinah separated well before the headlines: he has said they had effectively split months earlier, and in September he announced their “fairytale love story has come to an end.” Shekinah filed for divorce that same month, citing irreconcilable differences — though at first she insisted, “I still see myself as married because I am.” She has also said she had heard about Sarper on dating apps. Sarper has joked about erasing the red-lips tattoo of Shekinah from his neck, quipping that “red is also the color of warning signs.”

Sarper Guven performing stand-up comedy on stage

Photo: Complex

Team “He’s Single” vs. Team “Shekinah Was Right”

So the fandom has sorted itself into two camps. Team “He’s Single” says the paperwork speaks for itself: separated for months, divorce filed, a man who said he was single and acted like it. If the screenshots are even real — no one has verified them — what exactly did he do wrong? Team “Shekinah Was Right” reads the same Tulsa night the opposite way: three other women in one evening, a woman told to go home and wait, and a pattern Shekinah herself flagged when she mentioned the dating apps. For them, Khloey’s story is not new behavior — it is the explanation for the split.

Neither Sarper nor Shekinah has addressed Khloey’s claims directly. Until one of them does, the argument stays where it is: two camps, one unverified set of screenshots, and a Tulsa night two people remember very differently. So — if a separated man tells a woman he is single, does that make the Tulsa night fair game, or does “act like I didn’t even exist” explain why Shekinah filed first? Team He’s Single, or Team Shekinah Was Right — which side are you on?

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